The, so called, secret to knowing Yeshua is no secret at all. It is keeping His Torah. To know someone is to know what they will do in this or that situation. Torah tells us what YHWH Yeshua will do in all things, which is why Torah is called all things. If you worry how the world will judge you for not following the fallen worlds traditions over YHWH’s way aka Torah, you are breaking the first division of Torah, in that you care how others judge more than how YHWH will judge you. Keep His Torah even when it seems hard, and in this you will receive His peace which is infinitely better than the temporary and fleeting peace of the world. Yes, it will seem hard when you start. But that is nothing compared to how hard it is to holding onto your guilt for evils you know you have done. Not to mention Yeshua is the strong ox who takes on the easy and light yoke with you, teaching you as you follow Him on the path He Himself treaded showing you how it is to be done.